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FIRST dates are nerve-racking, that\u2019s for sure.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Whether you\u2019re experienced in the world of dating, or completely new to single life, the pandemic has left many of us in need of dating guidance.<\/p>\n

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If you need some dating advice, here’s seven questions you MUST ask on a first date<\/span>Credit: Getty<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

For a long time, we were confined to our homes, unable to go out and meet new people.<\/p>\n

Most of us have forgotten how to socialise and the thought of a first date is SERIOUSLY scary.<\/p>\n

Knowing what to talk about on a first date can be daunting – what kind of questions should you be asking? What if there\u2019s an awkward silence?<\/p>\n

The truth is, everyone is in the same boat, so try not to overthink every conversation.<\/p>\n

To help make your first date as stress free as possible, relationship expert, James Thomas at Condoms.uk<\/a>, has shared the seven questions you need to ask on a first date.<\/p>\n

Remember, the goal is a flowing conversation, it\u2019s not an interview, but having these pointers will set your date off in the right direction.<\/p>\n

<\/span>\u2018What\u2019s your favourite way to relax?\u2019<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

An alternative to asking about hobbies, finding out how your date likes to relax will provide you with a better insight into their characteristics.<\/p>\n

If their downtime involves relaxing with a book, you will be able to understand if they are happy in their own company.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if they mention friends or family in their relaxing activities, they might prefer socialising with people.<\/p>\n

Showing an interest will open further conversations to find a mutual interest.<\/p>\n

<\/span>\u2018What was the last show you binge-watched?\u2019<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

It will be hard to find someone who hasn\u2019t binged watched every Netflix series during the pandemic.<\/p>\n

But asking about their recent watch will provide you with an understanding of their TV preferences.<\/p>\n

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People tend to relate to characters they aspire to be like so it’s good to find out what shows your date is into. <\/p>\n

You can also exchange show recommendations and you could find you have more in common than you think.<\/p>\n

<\/span>\u2018What is something you want to learn?\u2019<\/span><\/h2>\n

This question will challenge your dates’ ambitions.<\/p>\n

Throughout life we are constantly learning and aspiring to better ourselves.<\/p>\n

If someone doesn\u2019t have a desire to learn, it might be a turn off to you.<\/p>\n

It can be anything from learning a language to developing confidence for public speaking.<\/p>\n

It allows you see if their interests match with yours alongside their current priorities.<\/p>\n

<\/span>\u2018Do you have a \u2018signature\u2019 dish you love to cook?\u2019<\/span><\/h2>\n

Asking this will show if the person is an avid cooker.<\/p>\n

If they admit to not cooking, you can use it as a suggestion to learn together on a future date and if they do have a dish in mind, they could indicate to make it for you one day.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll then open the conversation into food preferences and any allergies they might have.<\/p>\n

<\/span>\u2018If the world was ending tomorrow, what would you do?\u2019<\/span><\/h2>\n

This question could go one of several ways.<\/p>\n

It could invite humour into the conversation or shine a compassionate light with answers such as \u2018spend time with my parents\u2019.<\/p>\n

It allows you to get a real feel for their personality and an insight into if they\u2019re spontaneous or a planner.<\/p>\n

<\/span>\u2018What is the best thing that has happened to you this week?\u2019<\/span><\/h2>\n

Asking about something recent is a nice way to break the ice.<\/p>\n

The broadness of the question allows the person to gage what they perceive as the \u2018best\u2019.<\/p>\n

It shows if they appreciate the smaller things in the life or events on a bigger scale.<\/p>\n

<\/span>\u2018What is the weirdest thing you\u2019ve bought on Amazon?\u2019<\/span><\/h2>\n

A funny question is guaranteed to keep things flowing.<\/p>\n

This question leaves room for a story to be told on both sides and something to remember each other by.<\/p>\n

So now all you need to do is memorise these questions and you\u2019ll be set for a great first date.<\/p>\n

<\/span>But what to do if your first date isn\u2019t going well?<\/span><\/h2>\n

James advises: \u201cIf things aren\u2019t going to plan, try not to panic.<\/p>\n

If you aren\u2019t clicking, chances are they feel the same way as you do.<\/p>\n

There is no shame in being honest, but never leave unannounced or change your attitude.<\/p>\n

If the meal or round of drinks has come to an end simply ask for the bill, address the situation and call it a night.\u201d<\/p>\n

Happy dating!<\/p>\n

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Ask your date these seven questions to avoid any awkward silences<\/span>Credit: Getty<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Meanwhile, a woman reveals she’s been on 500 first dates but gets the ick within 60 seconds.<\/p>\n

Plus, Brits reveal how to have the perfect first date \u2013 including buying three drinks and complementing your partner twice.<\/p>\n

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