{"id":36473,"date":"2021-08-22T20:02:22","date_gmt":"2021-08-22T14:32:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/woman-dumped-boyfriend-after-christmas-dinner-revelations-including-attempted-murder\/"},"modified":"2021-08-22T20:46:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-22T15:16:41","slug":"woman-dumped-boyfriend-after-christmas-dinner-revelations-including-attempted-murder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/woman-dumped-boyfriend-after-christmas-dinner-revelations-including-attempted-murder\/","title":{"rendered":"Woman dumped boyfriend after Christmas dinner revelations &#8211; including attempted murder"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p class=\"lead-content__sub-title\">A woman has revealed she broke up with her boyfriend after horrifying red flags emerged &#8211; including a revelation from his parents that he was charged with attempted murder<\/p>\n<div class=\"lead-content__lead-element lead-content__lead-element--image\"><\/div>\n<nav class=\"inline-nav\"><\/nav>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><!-- Article Start--><\/p>\n<p>A woman has revealed the three red flags that finally persuaded her to break up with her boyfriend.<\/p>\n<p>She told how she spent Christmas with his family and while there his parents started telling her facts about him that she had no idea about.<\/p>\n<p>Horrified, she was forced to end the relationship after revelations of animal abuse and attempted murder.<\/p>\n<p>The woman, named Ally, posted a video <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@ally.261?_d=secCgYIASAHKAESMgowToBmBoquhnNhDGoEOcrIv5XJ7Tv%2BhUxVtTijabJEikVN9xlKdMQyLLym3BKBYwc5GgA%3D&amp;checksum=c5c6d2f01143d98c4f992d84cfd9f558c2edcecbbc167ac702905f259e595792&amp;language=en&amp;preview_pb=0&amp;sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAARCRqrVVdpdbSS9t3Z3uu-5ESeCvm_u-akOLWlshojGL9YH8yLx21EOjFDRx4TzBx&amp;share_app_id=1233&amp;share_item_id=6987401185963658502&amp;share_link_id=418723BB-CD53-4DAF-9F1E-A2A2E6B97C48&amp;source=h5_m&amp;timestamp=1629184322&amp;tt_from=messenger&amp;u_code=d8fcbadgmbefi7&amp;user_id=6742599607698801669&amp;utm_campaign=client_share&amp;utm_medium=ios&amp;utm_source=messenger&amp;_r=1\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">on TikTok<\/a> where she explained the situation.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;At Christmas dinner, his parents started talking about how he used to kill cats as a kid and how they couldn&#8217;t have kittens they had to get an older cat because he would kill them,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And then, this is the fun part, I found out that he had been arrested for attempted murder when he was 15.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We&#8217;re dating at 28, this is 14 years later and suddenly everything makes sense and all of these weird suspicions I had, boom. I got out two months later and I don&#8217;t regret a thing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<section data-embed-group=\"picture\" data-embed-items=\"2\" data-ad-dockable=\"true\" data-redesign-embed=\"true\" data-orientation=\"portrait\">\n<div class=\"image-container\" data-redesign-embed=\"true\"><span class=\"caption\">Her boyfriend&#8217;s parents told her he was once charged with attempted murder<\/span><br \/>\n<span class=\"credit\"><span class=\"credit\"> (<\/span><\/span>Image:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<p>She said the things his parents told her gave her an &#8220;epiphany&#8221; that she had to leave him.<\/p>\n<p>Ally and her ex had met when she moved back to her hometown in 2018 and started working in the same restaurant as him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He was one of the first people who was really nice to me and despite the fact that he seemed not super well-off, he was really skinny and didn&#8217;t eat much, I liked him,&#8221; she explained.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He was friends with a few of my friends so we would all play board games after work and it was nice.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I didn&#8217;t see anything weird about him and everyone was encouraging me to hang out with him, nobody had bad things to say about him at that point.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>But soon the cracks started to show, with Ally&#8217;s boyfriend regularly asking her for money, running into hundreds of dollars.<\/p>\n<section data-embed-group=\"picture\" data-embed-items=\"2\" data-ad-dockable=\"true\" data-redesign-embed=\"true\" data-orientation=\"portrait\">\n<div class=\"image-container\" data-redesign-embed=\"true\"><span class=\"caption\">Ally&#8217;s ex would steal money from her and never cough up for anything<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"image-container\" data-redesign-embed=\"true\"><span class=\"caption\">Ally had an &#8220;epiphany&#8221; and realised she&#8217;d had enough<\/span><\/div>\n<div data-redesign-embed=\"true\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"image-container\" data-redesign-embed=\"true\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, BlinkMacSystemFont, -apple-system, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;\">&#8220;While I was on a hiking trip he double cashed a check and called me and was like &#8216;I need money right now I double cashed this check and they know I did and I&#8217;ve run out of money&#8217;,&#8221; she said.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/section>\n<p>&#8220;During this time his car also broke down and he needed a tow truck and I was only gone for four days but I sent him money and paid all of it while also trying to buy food and stuff while on the road.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He then claimed he could not afford his rent anymore and so they moved in together and Ally paid for everything.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When we got his apartment I paid for everything. I paid first and last rent, [I paid for] damage, I paid for most of the furniture we had and within 48 hours I was like what the f*** did I sign up to,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>She said he would never help around the house and would stay up all night playing video games.<\/p>\n<p>Ally also realised that when her ex would go to get food shopping, he would ask her for the money back &#8211; but would ask for quadruple the total of the bill and pocket the remainder.<\/p>\n<p>Other red flags included his reluctance to bond with animals, while her parents&#8217; dog would always bark at him as if it knew there was something not right.<\/p>\n<p>But Ally got chills when her ex&#8217;s words became violent.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;One day we were talking about what they&#8217;d do if we broke up and he said &#8216;I will take everything you own and throw it off our third-floor balcony, I will take your car and crash it, I will leave you hurt,'&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>When she finally decided to leave, his own family helped her.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He is just very unwell,&#8221; she added.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A woman has revealed she broke up with her boyfriend after horrifying red flags emerged &#8211; including a revelation from his parents that he was &#8230; <a title=\"Woman dumped boyfriend after Christmas dinner revelations &#8211; including attempted murder\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/woman-dumped-boyfriend-after-christmas-dinner-revelations-including-attempted-murder\/\" aria-label=\"More on Woman dumped boyfriend after Christmas dinner revelations &#8211; including attempted murder\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":35,"featured_media":36474,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36473"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/35"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=36473"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36473\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/36474"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36473"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36473"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=36473"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}