{"id":49060,"date":"2021-09-01T23:03:52","date_gmt":"2021-09-01T17:33:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/bride-admits-she-wants-to-ban-child-from-wedding-who-has-adhd-and-is-badly-behaved-2\/"},"modified":"2021-09-01T23:03:53","modified_gmt":"2021-09-01T17:33:53","slug":"bride-admits-she-wants-to-ban-child-from-wedding-who-has-adhd-and-is-badly-behaved-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/districtchronicles.com\/bride-admits-she-wants-to-ban-child-from-wedding-who-has-adhd-and-is-badly-behaved-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Bride admits she wants to ban child from wedding who \u2018has ADHD and is badly behaved\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"
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A bride-to-be took to Mumsnet<\/a> with a particular and debatable question about her upcoming wedding guest list \u2013 which has struck up a mixture of responses. <\/p>\n

In a thread titled, \u2018To not want a child I haven\u2019t met at my wedding?\u2019, the woman explains that her April wedding is \u201cgoing to be a child-friendly event\u201d with \u201clots of kids entertainment\u201d, but admitted that she doesn\u2019t want to invite her cousin\u2019s partner\u2019s daughter who \u201chas ADHD and is not very well behaved\u201d to the event. <\/p>\n

\u00a0She said: \u201cI feel quite bad saying no but feel like I don\u2019t want a kid who a) I don\u2019t know and b) may be badly behaved?? I\u2019m not anti-ADHD at all, in fact about 6 of the kids coming have ADHD\/ autism\/ special needs, but the point is we know them and have a relationship with them.\u201d<\/p>\n

While the woman shared that her cousin in attendance has \u201ca relatively new boyfriend\u201d with the daughter \u201caround eight or nine\u201d who she also hasn\u2019t met, she did say \u201cthe daughter could easily stay home with her mum. She just wants to come for the holiday as I live quite far away and it will be a family holiday for her.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n

Mumsnet users were divided. One took to the comments to deconstruct the woman\u2019s question:<\/p>\n

\u201cWe have stated quite clearly that we want all our friends and family to bring their children along: Not surprised they think his child might be able to come too if you\u2019ve been stating it clearly tbh.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s going to be a child-friendly event:\u00a0Just not for this child then? Eh?<\/p>\n

\u201cWe love kids:\u00a0Do you? What all kids? You don\u2019t seem to like this one and you haven\u2019t even got to know them.\u201d<\/p>\n

While another user highlighted that the wedding is seven months away. This would give the bride-to-be plenty of time to get to know them. \u201cApril is what? 7, 8 months away? If the only problem you have is that you don\u2019t know the child, you could always spend a bit of time with your cousin, her partner and his child\u201d, they said.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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